Questions about Defining Your Version of Enough
In a culture that constantly pushes for more: more money, more success, more achievement, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly satisfies you. Talking about what “enough” means financially, emotionally, and lifestyle-wise helps couples reduce stress and comparison. This discussion creates alignment around goals, spending, ambition, and pace of life. When you share a clear definition of fulfillment, you replace endless striving with intentional living, making space for gratitude and deeper connection.
- Do you feel like you are in Hunter Mode (I need to acquire more status/money/security to be okay) or Gatherer Mode (I have what I need, I just need to manage it)?
- There's Hedonic Treadmill, the idea that we quickly get used to nice things. What is one thing you used to want that you now have, but it no longer gives you a thrill?
- When you picture The Good Life, is it defined by Freedom (having control over your time to do nothing) or Access (having the ability to buy the best things and experiences)?
